Little 时旭

Little Shi Xu has high potential of leadership . He demostrated his leadership since he was 16.5 months old . When he was 16.5 months old , his ex nanny almost lost her conscious at home , he immediately took out the first aid box and pass to the people who came to her house by coincidence and he also know to use handkerchief to wipe off the cold sweat on nanny's face .I was so impressed he can actually take the tense situation calmly in such a young age !!

When he came to 22 months old , he started his school life in Cherie Heart . After 3 weeks of his school life , He has grown to be more independent , intelligent and confident . He can take care of himself at school and he even will help to comfort the crying playmates in school .

When he turned to 23 months ,i guess he is that one who are leading the playmates to sing national song during the daily assembly time . Why i say so ? because i actually "witness" his leadership at home .That has one weekend, when we were watching the TV ,Shi Xu suddently speak out loudly "ATTENTION!!" , when i was alerted and looked at him , he was standing straightly and started singing Singapore National Song "Majulah Singapore ..." He made me burst into laugh !

When come to the end of our meal time ,he will say" everybody clean up ! clean up! "and then he will start helping us to clean up the mess as well . Same to the toys mess , he will say "keep the toys! " .Sometimes i just find that he is talking in tone of leadership.

I'm so glad to be able to witness his amazing development and he always bring a lot of fun and laugh to our family .


Shi Xu on 24 month

Every year come to his birthday celebration , I have been racking my brains
, what presents to get , what kind of cakes for my little one and always trying to figure out where and how to celebrate his birthday .

Last year we held a Mac Donald party and went to cruise ship for his first birthday .This year , i planned to have a tour during his birthday . My initial plan was bring him to Hong Kong Disneyland , however the plan have to be on hold due to the H1N1 outbreak .

Last year we had celebrated twice for his birthday (MAc donald & cruise ) , this year we even celebrated 3 times!He celebrated with his cousins at grandmother house (16.7.2009) , with his peers at school (17.7.2009) , and lastly celebrated with his lovely parents at Singapore Zoo (19.7.2009)

Shi Xu was miss his animal friends. In the early morning , he told me "I want otter" ,"elephant " .I admit, i could not resist his request ,so let's go the zoo again !(we had planned to bring him there also even if he did not request ) . However this time we mainly for elephant show only.

Today is Shi Xu 2nd year birthday !!In the early morning , Shi Xu received his birthday presents and happily openned them .. I brought out his biggest presents when he openned all of his presents .he gave me a "WOW ! " and shock expressions when he saw it . Yes , this is his favorite Thomas & friends set !!He had so much delight and excitement in playing with his Thomas . ( In fact daddy even more excited than him, keep him busy with making up the tracks for Thomas/Shi Xu? )

After celebrated with Thomas , Let's go to the Zoo !

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaWith Sea lion ....

**Shi Xu on 24 month

I have brought Shi Xu birthday cake to his school . Teacher michelle had allocated a 30mins time slot for his small birthday celebration .Shi Xu was so surprise to see me appear at his school at that time . He was so excited to introduce his playmates to me .

When the cakes sat on the center of the table ,all the kids were so excited ,the cake really look great . Shi Xu couldn't wait to sing his birthday song again .

After the birthday song and all the oooh-and-aaah were over, it’s time to taste the cake and gave the small gifts to his "guest " . Shi Xu generously gave the gift to his friends and everyone was so happy with the delicous cake and gifts .....

**Shi Xu on 24 month

3 days before Shi Xu birthday(16.7.2009) , Barry(my 2nd brother in law ) baked a nice chocolate cake for Shi Xu birthday and we had a small celebration with Shi Xu "gor gorS" (cousins) , grandma ,aunty ,ex nanny and uncle .Shi Xu was happy when he saw the birthday cake.He couldn't wait to touch on the birthday and of course sing his favourite birthday song for himself ,blow out the candles...

How time flies ,little Shi Xu is turning 2 years old .When he was 22~23 months , he used to take out my small round and flat pan ,put on the table as his birthday cake ,and sang the birthday song for himself .He pretty enjoy to do that .

Birthday cake , candles with birthday song , think this is what he dream for his birthday .And birthday cake ,with beautiful candles glowing on top, it is always the center of attraction in a birthday party .Hence ,when his birthday was approaching , i was pretty busy sourcing for his birthday cake . Hope can give him a cake which has a theme or his favourite cartoon character .

Finally i settle on car theme , he definately will like it as he pretty much love carSS .

Little Shi Xu has changed .Recently he always throw his tantrum by throwing away his toys or whatever on his hand ! He hit me , hit daddy , hit whoever is carrying him when we say "no!" to him . When he throw his tantrum, he will purposely do something to displeasure us (sucking his finger which we always dont allow him to do so )

I guess i am stepping into the stage of terrible twos now !

I am not that kind of patient person ,i admit .Everytime when he throw his tantrum, he drives me up the wall over and over again. I lost my calmness and feel clueless and i had shouted at him for few time (*sob sob * ) . Nevertheles , everytime i tried to calm down myself and tell him in calm that he can not hit mummy and daddy or anyone as we will feel pain and it is not right to do so.

How could i handle his tantrum ?
I think BEST way is distraction . I have an experience in recently night .
When we were on our home way , Shi Xu become grouchy and cranky in the car as he did not have his pacifier to suck on ( he used to suck on his pacifier when he aboard car ) .It is a MUST-HAVE when we go out .However due to childcare teacher careless , his pacifer left in childcare .
After a long time he making noise , finally i come out with a good idea to DISTRACT him .

Shi Xu very like to enjoy the breeze blow on his face , so i ask daddy wind down the window whenever he ask for pacifier .So it come with this case , when he said "Dudu! " , the window "automacally"wind down ( of course it was controlled by daddy on driver seat :P ) . So whenever he said "Dudu! " , the window will wind down and the breeze blow on his face . He feel so magic and stop making noise ! Guess wat ? He keep saying "Dudu! " so that the window wind down and wind up again and again . And daddy try to wind down different side of window , so he keep playing to say "dudu! " and see which window is opened . Funny right ? but it works ! He stopped throwing tantrum . Hurray ! and we drove home "peacefully " .

Shi Xu on 23.5 month

When it comes to sing , Shi Xu can be very enjoyable .He like to sing with or without music whevener he is in good mood . He always sing along these song "anytime ,any where " and dance for joy .

This is his favourite song list ->"拔萝卜“，” 握紧拳头“，“造飞机“，”小星星“，“生日快乐“， “蝴蝶“,"两只老虎“，“我的朋友在那里“ ，“london bridge ","The wheel on the bus " , "happy birthday " ," twinke twinkle little star " ,"ABC song ","Oh Mac Donald farm " ,"little teapot " , "incy wincy spider , " head,shoulder ,knee and toes " , and many many more ! (he is a little pop star in our family now :P)

Recently he has blossomed of bundle of creativity . He mixed 2 languages in 1 song .
For instance , when he sing twinkle twinkle little star, he mix with manderin and english (previously he could sing the song mainly in english , however after i had taught him in manderin for the same song , he come with funny idea to mix them up ) .
He sing " 一闪一闪亮晶晶“。。。"up above the world so high " , or come with another creative song like " twinkle twinkle 亮晶晶 ". Sometimes he even change the lyrics according to his interest , like he sing "两只老虎,两只老虎,一定没有跑得快,一定没有跑得快...".haha...What my creative boy !

It always be an uphill task for me to take a video for him whenever he sing song or has some funny and interesting movement.It is such a huge challenge to get him to sit still to let me take photo or video , think i should install a web camera at home so that i can video down all his amazing development,isn't it a good idea ?

Today i was pretty lucky , i was able to video my little Shi Xu when he was singing , he was enjoy to sing “我的朋友在那里“ and i quickly took out my camera to video him , he only came to snatch the camera from me when he finished his whole song . Hurray ! i got his video finally !

Shi Xu on 23.5 month

Today when i knock off from office to my in law house as usual , to my surprise , i received a first "report" from Cherie Heart regarding my little Shi Xu progress in school. 
This is what shi xu learn in school in term 3 at Cherie Heart (25 March 2009 ~ 10 July 2009)
Understand the world with our sense 
a) Language Arts
  -picture talk of taking care of eyes 
b) Literacy  
  -Introduce the story"Brown Bear ,Brown Bear ,what do you see "?
c) congnitive 
  -Let children identify objects in the classroom using their eys (for example tables, chairs ,colours around the classroom ,etc) 
d) Gross motor developments 
  -Prodive different type of balls for children to develope the skills of throwing and rolling  
e)Fine motor developement 
  -pasting and tearing of papers to decorate the toilet rollbinoculars 
f) Aesthetic/Affective 
  -Finger play,rhymes and songs about eyes . 
g) 华语：
  故事：《小不点长大了〉〉；《逛公园〉〉
  美术画册：鸡妈妈孵蛋；七色花； 我和音乐做游戏 ； 拍拍胸； 斗斗虫
  手工：彩色的蛋
  体育游戏：逛公园 
h) Others 
  -Arts & craft (paper plate face mask, binocular) 
  - rhymes ( i have 2 eyes , down by the little duck) 

That has some art & craft master pieces attached with the report .I was so impressed when i looked at my little boy's masterpieces . Shi Xu actually learn a lot from school and i bet he would have a lot of fun with the caring teachers and friends in Cherie Heart . 
 

Before my memory become rusty and end up forget what i keep his masterpiece , i think it would be better i blog down his masterpiece .

Shi Xu on 23.5 month 

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Upper Pierce reservoir was originally known as the Kalang River Reservoir, it is Singapore's second reservoir.

Today we head for a walk(perhap was tricycle cycling?) at Upper Pierce Reservoir.While approaching the reservoir , we saw LOADS of monkeys in the area .There was a lot of people fishing at the reservoir too .

We (daddy and mummy ) had a leisure stroll while Shi Xu cycled his tricycle at Upper Pierce Reservoir .It was sunny but yet extremely cooling with the lush greenery.

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaPushing or cycling ?

**Shi Xu @ 22.75 months

in the car , when we were on our way home ... 

mummy : what is your name ?
Shi Xu : my name Shi xu ( "is" omitted ) 

mummy : How old are you ?
Shi Xu : i am 2 years old 
( try to do a victory posture which means 2 , but still unable to do that posture ,end up come out with 4 or 5 fingers , he still unable to bend down the other 3 fingers haha .. ) 

mummy :Where do you stay ? 
Shi Xu :I stay Semba-wang! ( "at" omitted ) 

爸爸说这通常都是警察会问的问题，所以现在不用担心时旭会失踪了。如果失踪，去 sembawang警察局就好啦！哈哈。。 
但我认为这还不够呢，因为还没告诉警察住哪个block,哪一楼和哪个unit 啊！ 如果这也会的话，警察叔叔就可把时旭送到门口了哈哈。。。

我会不会要求太多呢哈哈。。。

时旭 on 22.75 month

今天是我公司的电影日,我决定带小时旭去尝尝看电影的滋味, 因为这次看的是animation cartoon ->Monster vs Aliens .我很紧张,不知时旭到时会被戏院的音响吓着吗? 还是不可以待在里面一个多小时? 会不会怕黑?会不会闹呢?所以我做了"防范措施" ,特地叫HR 留个旁边位子给我们,方便我们"溜走"(如果时旭闹或被吓着) .

我们还预测不可能把戏看完,看多久会被"踢"出来咯.结果我们都大跌眼镜!时旭一点都没怕, 乖乖地看,我怕他闹,就"骗"他吃爆米花, 结果他就像我们大人一样,一边欣赏电影,一边吃爆米花哈哈..他还会给些"意见" .例如电影情节里很黑时, 他还会对我们说"暗暗!" , 男配角重复说"never never never ever ! " , 他也跟着说"never! " 哈哈.. 他不时好奇地望向旁边,因为音响是surrounding 的, 他该是很好奇为什么旁边会发出声音. 对他而言,该是很新奇吧!

看了大概一个小时,我拿了他的dudu(奶嘴)给他,他就睡着了.我想他大概也累了. 结果我们还是"成功地"把戏看完了. 哈哈...


时旭 on 22.5 month

I came accross the G-Market website and attracted by its wall stickers .It offer a wide selection of wall stickers at great prices .Unlike normal wallpaper, these decals can be easily removed whenever we want.We can also arrange the modular stickers any way we like for a completely personalised look.I can't resist this adorable goodies .I tempted to have one for my little Shi Xu. Decorating his toy room has never been easier.

最近时旭很喜欢唱歌，他现在会唱“ABC song ","Happy Birthday" (自从上个月在Malaysia为宇恒唱生日歌），“OH Macdonald farm " ,"The Wheel on the bus " ,"Noddy" 等等．　但每首都不完整哈哈．．　就像“ABC song"，　他只会唱"ABCD"，如果我和他＂合唱＂他就可把整首唱完．　他唱"ABCD"，　我唱＂EFG,HI", 他就会接＂JK" ，　我就帮他唱＂LMNOP"，　然后他就会接唱"QRS", 我唱"TU", 他唱"V",我唱"WX" ,他唱"YZ" 哈哈.. 我们真是完美合唱二人组.至于"Happy Birthday", 他只会唱"Happy..to you " ,"happy ..to you " ,结果把"Birthday" 给吞了哈哈..“OH Macdonald farm ", 时旭只唱"quek quek quek quek , yi ya yi ya yo " ,他也把"here ","there " , "everywhere " 给吞了."The Wheel on the bus " 更"省工" , 只唱了最后一句"all day long ", "Noddy", 他只唱chorus 的"By myself ! "

今天时旭很开心, 在吃完晚饭回家途中,他不停地"大展歌喉".除了唱他"拿手"的歌,今天还加了两首我们预想不到的歌->cherie Heart校歌和新加坡国歌! 他边拍手边唱"Hearts school ,hearts school! " (原本是cherie Hearts school,cherie Hearts school,他又把"Hearts"吞了) ,至于国歌, 他只会唱" Majulah" , 我就得帮他接" Singapora! " ,或有时我唱" Majulah",他唱" Singapora!" 咯.现在我是时旭的合唱伙伴哈哈..


时旭 on 22.5 month

今天我们去了一家韩国餐厅吃晚餐，我们还为时旭准备了他喜爱的"homemade cawanmushi "。
当爸爸要喂时旭吃时，出乎预料地时旭对爸爸说“自己拿!“，结果他真的自己拿着汤匙把cawanmushi吃完！看得我们目瞪口呆。

本来时旭就是一个“很难喂“的小孩，他并不真么吃，要他吃简直难如登天。把他送入childcare，我们也只是希望他看了小朋友吃，他也会吃。只要我喂他吃，他会吃而不拒绝就行了。（平时我们都是用了千方百计去哄他吃的)。万万想不到，在Cherie Hearts生活了两个星期，他不止胃口好了，还学会了自己吃。Cherie Hearts用了四天的时间，就把时旭“训练“得自己喝奶（不需要等他入睡了才“偷偷“喂他），也只花了两个星期，就把他的胃“给开了“，还会自己吃。我不得不欢呼“Cherie Hearts 万岁！“

看到时旭胃口好了，也会自己吃了，我真的很开心，很欣慰。曾几何时，为了他的“吃”，把我抓疯了，还记得我们的“喂奶事件吗？“哈哈。。我想我今晚睡觉，在梦里也会笑。


时旭 on 22.5 month

时旭已经没哭了，只是早上在爸爸离开Cherie Heart的那一刻，还是会哭几分钟哈哈。。

陪了时旭坐了三天的校车，今天终于时旭第一天自己坐校车，我很紧张，不知道小小年纪的他可以handle吗？原来我的担心是白费的。婆婆说，在楼下接他时，校车aunty把他的bag拿下车时，他就自己拉了。好独立哦。其实昨天，婆婆陪时旭坐最后一天校车时，他都不需要婆婆帮了。当时旭看到校车aunty时，就自己自动地拉了书包走向校车，婆婆只是跟在时旭的后面。哈哈。。校车司机在找东西，很久都还没开车，时旭还会对他说“快点！“哈哈。。。看来时旭已经适应childcare 的生活了。



时旭 on 22.5 month

由于时旭会开始想念我们，我们就决定让他坐校车回婆婆家，这样就不需在childcare待得太久，5点就可回家了。

今天是时旭第一天坐校车，爸爸拿了半天假，5点准时到childcare 陪时旭坐校车。当爸爸到Cherie Heart 时，也没听到任何哭声，老师说时旭渐渐习惯了。看来也只是闹一天（第三天）而已。

以前时旭都不喝奶，我们每次都要等他睡了，才可以喂，因为如果给他看到了，他就会推开，拒绝喝。但在时旭进了Cherie Heart的第四天，有明显的进步了，我们不需要等他睡，他“清醒“的状况下喝，还对我们说“自己拿“。时旭，加油！


时旭 on 22nd month

观察了时旭两天，看到他那么独立，原本是想取消今天的leave ，但想想还是再多观察一天吧！

果然今天开始闹了。我想大概前两天，新鲜的环境，人物让他感到兴奋，也没时间想父母。现在新鲜感过了？还是因为今天我们来的太早？他是第一个报道，没有小朋友陪他玩，所以他就有点粘着我？或者是今天来了一个小弟弟（18个月大），他妈妈一直抱着他，所以时旭看了也要我抱？老师叫我出去“躲“，当他看着我走出去时，他哭了。我躲在外面，看了很心酸。老师哄他，停了，不久又哭了。但每次哭都不会很久。在玻璃窗外，我看到他很不开心，很忧郁，他也拒绝吃东西，我看了都心痛，不禁眼泪都留下来了。

今天我提早“现身“，3:30PM左右，我就来接他了，陪他在课室里玩，时旭很开心，还带我去找他的书包，他已经知道哪个是他的书包了。希望时旭可以尽早适应新环境吧！


时旭 on 22nd month

今天是时旭上课第二天，他还是开心地参与每个活动。

我们“埋伏”了一个上午都没“动静”，就溜去拍拖看电影，喝下午茶。哇！看来还真“relax " 啊！哈哈。。。

下午五点来接时旭，才听到他刚开始哭说mummy在外面，他要去找mummy。当时childcare很静，可能他怕吧。哈哈。。他开始会找父母了。

在回家途中，时旭对我说“occupation" ，我就sms老师今天学校是不是教occupation了，老师说这学期是，之后我也看到课室有贴occupation的海报。哈哈。。。原来时旭有听书哦！还会“汇报"给我们今天老师教了什么。Smart boy !

dgdgdfgfgfgfgfgfggfon 2nd day, 时旭 already mixed well with other little friends

时旭 on 22nd month

今天是个很特别的日子，这是我家时旭第一天到学校上课（cherie heart childcare)，时旭终于上学了！我和爸爸都很紧张，还特地请了两天假（我还请了三天呢）去childcare “埋伏”.

那天我们并不是第一个到cherie heart，当我们抵步时，已有几个小朋友到了。
上早操课时，时旭还是要我们陪着他玩，毕竟是第一天嘛！过后老师要我们去填表格，我们就“暂时”离开了时旭。他和老师，小朋友们玩的还挺开心的。当我们填完表格时，我发现时旭不在“大厅“了。哈哈。。他已经开心地跟着老师，小朋友们进课室了。我们就这样“自然”地分开了。所以我们也没像其他父母这样，陪着孩子身边上课，睡午觉。

时旭真的很懂事，很独立，他在课室里，自己搬玩具来玩，没哭也没闹。只是他没参与和没跟学校的纪律，老师在教书时，小朋友们都围着老师坐下，乖乖地听课。只有时旭自己走来走去，自己玩。但很多老师都说时旭已经很棒了，第一天竟然没哭，也没闹着找父母。吃了午饭，老师帮他冲凉，他也乖乖地让老师冲。到了中午，时旭还是没闹，还跟大伙儿去睡午觉了，我们“躲”在外面，闲着没事做，就驾车到Hougang吃，再去Kovan看公寓。哈哈。。我还是第一次听，孩子第一天上课，父母还可那么轻松地去上街。

下午五点，我们回来接时旭，他还是那么地"steady" 。老师说他很独立，很乖，一点都没闹。只是没什么吃，可能还没熟悉环境和照顾他的人。希望他日后渐渐会跟着其他小朋友一起吃吧！
我真的感到很欣慰，其实时旭还真的很小，两岁还不到，把他放在一个完全陌生的地方，他也不怕，也不闹。所以我们也买了他喜欢的玩具车奖励他了！

时旭, mummy really proud of you !

This time we headed down to pretty much the southern most point in Singapore ->Labrador Park .It located at the southern coast of Singapore beside Sentosa Island and Keppel Marina.


This jetty is the most popular spot to fish in the park as it extends out the sea.I like the beautiful view of this jetty .

**Shi Xu @ 21 months

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaI can do it !

Shi Xu doing well in my hometown .Seperation anxiety did not strikes even though he rarely seperated from his daddy . He had a great time there . However , he experienced separation anxiety at the first night ,he get upset at being separated from his dearest daddy .Perhaps he also did not have sense of security of the strange environment .He resisted to lie on the bed even though he was tiring and sleepy .He choosed to sit down and leant against me .when i saw him fell sleep and remained sit yet resisted to lie on the bed , I broke into tears ..

Labour day fall on monday and it would be a long weekend !I yearn for home,i yearn after a long break !Yes!I miss my hometown . i have packed and went back with my little one even 1 week before the long weekend .Only me and Shi Xu.( Daddy only came to join during the long weekend )

Well , there was another 4+ hours journey for us to reach our destination . Hang on there ,Shi Xu!

**Shi Xu on 21 months

时旭已懂得向人道歉了。

上个星期五晚上，时旭在玩时，他的头不小心撞到我的嘴巴，撞倒我牙龈都流血了。我痛得喊了出来，但我伏在床上假装哭。他看了马上过来，把我的头抬起，赶紧地对我说“sorry..sorry."我听了顿时觉得很sweet .小小年纪的他，竟然会对我道歉了。

昨天，我在翻他的 Animal Safari 的书，他大力地翻，弄疼了我ezcema的手指，我就伏在sofa，不理会他，他就很紧张地把我的头抬起，然后对我说“sorry..sorry."然后还不停地重复“sorry..sorry."他好像很怕弄疼了我，我会不理会他。而当他每次说sorry时，表情都很温柔，mummy 都快醉了哈哈。。。 当他每次向我道歉时，我心里真的觉得很窝心。

**时旭 on 20th months

前几个月发生的毒奶事件闹得非常轰动，无人不知，这个月我家的“喂奶事件“也闹得鸡犬不宁。

前两个星期开始，时旭开始学马来同胞的Puasa.禁食超过12小时！每天下午4：30就是他当天的last feed！晚上睡前的210ml的奶，倒！无论用尽什么方法都无法让他喝。刚入睡或熟睡都会推开奶瓶，他干脆把头栽在床上，趴者睡，这样我就无法把奶瓶塞进他的嘴巴。已经6小时没吃东西，难道不饿吗？没办法，把奶倒掉，愤怒的去睡。

早上530爬起来，想他定是饿了吧！已经13小时没吃了。就准备了210ml的奶，他竟又是那句“mai啊！“（不要）。 结果又是倒！我就火冒三丈了。那时什么胃？竟然不会饿的？都已经那么瘦了，还不要吃，体内够营养吗？现在他已经 underweight 了，体重在10% ，还达不到50%（平均体重）

连续下来十多天，结果都是这样。原本我就是只喂两餐奶（早上和晚上睡觉前），保姆家下午一餐。结果我晚上和早上都是把奶“喂”了洗碗盆（倒！）。有一天竟破了纪录，我那天足足倒了840ml的奶。
每天晚上，都是碰碰运气，准备了奶喂他，结果就是他被我骂到哭，而我怒气冲冲的出来把奶倒掉。。结果每天就是重复=〉晚上泡奶-〉试着喂奶-〉倒奶-〉生气睡去-〉起来泡奶-〉试着喂奶-〉倒奶-〉生气地去上班。

经过了两个礼拜，我和时旭都要疯了。我连发梦都在逼他喝奶。在梦里，我生气的叫他喝，而他又是那句“mai啊！“ 。从梦中“惊醒“，问他“nian nian 吗？“结果竟是和梦里一样“mai啊！“

过了一天，竟然轮到时旭“发噩梦“，早上5点左右，听到时旭说“mai啊！“，就觉得奇怪，我还没泡奶来喂他啊，怎么他拒绝说“mai啊！“。 哈哈。。原来他“发噩梦“。 应该是发梦我又在逼他喝奶吧。
天啊！我们俩母子就快要疯了。

奶粉就快完了，我就对爸爸说“爸爸，奶粉要”倒“完了（注意，不是喝完了），要买了“ 。爸爸听了也觉得好笑。

最近，爸爸想了个妙计，用奶泡Baby cereal，不要喂奶。我们就陪他画画，扯开他的注意力，在他专心画画时喂他。但这只可以喂半碗，又不要了 ，爸爸又想了个妙计。时旭很喜欢坐在他的car car ， 爸爸就把他整个连人带车抬起来，在空中飞。飞进房间喂一口，再飞进客厅又喂一口，在空中飞啊，转啊，我们就这样喂完一碗cereal。结果现在我们就每晚用了这方法。就像爸爸所说的“为了孩子，我们要洛力演出！”。
爸爸辛苦你了，你不用去gym了，每晚这“举重“运动已经够了。 为了孩子，辛苦也没办法咯。

结果，正如爸爸说的“晚上少了“喂奶事件“，安静多了，大家可以“宁静”的去睡了“ 。。。。。。。

**时旭 on 20th month

时旭是一个很洁癖的小男孩，从大概十三个月开始，如果为他吃东西时，弄脏了他的嘴巴而没帮他抹干净，他就会自己拿手帕，自己抹。如果找不到手帕，他就会把他的嘴抹在mummy的衣服。（时旭，你嘴巴干净了，但mummy的衣服肮脏了耶）。如果不要他碰某样东西，我就会说“肮脏！“， 他就会马上缩手。有一次，我在厨房忙着，他跑进来，我为了要他出厨房，我说“floor 肮脏！“他马上叫我抱抱。我要把他放下来，他竟“勾”着我的身体，不肯下地。他就是怕肮脏到这种地步。

到了18-19月，因为还在长牙(hehe ..时旭长牙的确有点慢） 所以时旭还流口水，流口水时，他就会说“口水。。抹抹“，就会顺手拿手帕来抹他的口水。
有一次，他看到房间地上有很多粉，他对我说“肮脏！。。。抹抹！“说完就顺手拿了我的睡裙来抹地！

除了肮脏要抹，同时时旭也懂得湿了也要抹干。就像他流口水，他要抹，car car（玩具车）湿了，他就会要求说“car car wet wet ,抹抹..“ 。地上湿了，他也会指着地上说“wet wet , 抹抹..“。好奇怪哦，他还那么小，怎么会懂，脏了就要抹，湿了就要用布抹才会干呢？无论如何，他现在已是我们家的小卫生官了。 哈哈。。

时旭已经懂得认路了。他知道那里是mummy工作的地方.

前几个月开始,几乎每天早上,before把时旭载到保姆家,爸爸都会载mummy到office附近的Hans吃早餐，如果mummy轮早班就直接载到office。上个星期五早上,像往常一样,当爸爸转进Hans的drop off point时,车还没停下来,时旭就知道mummy将要下车了,就先对mummy说"bye bye !"我们也很惊讶他怎么认得这是目的地呢?

过了周末,星期一,mummy轮早班,所以那天就没在Hans下车,而是直接到office门口下车.同样的,当车还没停下来,要到门口时,时旭就对mummy说bye bye了.他好像已经认得,如果天还没亮(6:30早班),mummy就会在office门口下车,如果是天很亮了(7:40左右),mummy就在Hans下车.

时旭,你已经会认路了哦,长大了可以载mummy去上班了.

后记：还好时旭没像mummy，mummy 是个大路痴，完全没方向感。在新加坡也迷了好几次路。要驾车去Bugis ，结果带路带了大家去Little India.要去Orchard Road ,结果去了Bukit Timah。读大学时，要去教补习，结果迷了路，迟到整整一个小时半。


**时旭 on 20th months

上个星期六，吃过了晚饭，我们带了时旭去Bukit Batok 的图书馆。时旭可真高兴呢，在图书馆走来走去。摸摸这里的书，又摸摸那里的书。在儿童部里，看到了一群印度小孩，还拿了一本书想要过去和他们坐在一起读。之后，看到了一个姐姐，脱了鞋，很relax的坐在地上阅读，他也有样学样，脱了他的鞋，坐在地上看书。没看多久，又走到书架去选别的书了， 这时，有个印度小男孩（大概和时旭同年龄吧），也过来选书，他想要拿书时，时旭对他说"No!!"，那印度小男孩就用他圆圆的大眼睛瞪着时旭，时旭才转了语气说“ok" .哈哈。。小孩子也会见风转舵哦！

**时旭 on 20th month

It was a special trip to NTU ,a place where Shi Xu's mummy and daddy start their love .

After 9 years , i came back to NTU with a new addition, little Shi Xu. NTU seems to have barely changed since i left .All look too familiar to me but the feel was totally different .I had my dream here ,i had my story here ,and my love started from here.Now it is no longer the place belong to me ,However the love between daddy and mummy goes on ....

Almost a decade , we are destined to connect to the same place again. Daddy is currently pursuing his master course in NTU . Perhaps in one day , Shi Xu will persue his dream here and the story goes on ....

aaaaaaaaaaaHe is in a Lilliput ...adorable look with an unbeatable cute lamp .

aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaMona Lisa smile ....

After 2 weeks of flashing dots card to 时旭 ( so far only flash to dots 39 ) , due to my curiosity , I did a quantity recognisation test with 时旭 . Everytime i choose 2 Consecutive numbers ,flash 1 of the number to 时旭 for 5 second .(eg , i choose 19 and 20 , but only flash dots 19 to him ) , and then mix these 2 cards togather and let him choose which one is answer . To my surpise , he can hit > 80-90% success rate ! At first , when he pointed to the correct answer , i still wonder it would be coincidence , then i continued to test again and again ( i think it may >20 times ) and he still could point to correct answer as well ! I quickly asked 爸爸 came and see how amazing he was .

After break a shortime , i did one more test again , i took out dots 12 and dots 13 (without flashing him 1 of the card before ) , and asked him which one is 12 directly (to my mistake , i faced the number to him instead of dots , he could not recognise numeral at this moment ) , he looked very puzzle , and came to me , turn to the dots side and point out the dots 12 to me !He made me so surprise !

In fact last 2 weeks when i just started flashed the dots cards , he hate it . he just simply ran away from me and didn't even want to look at the dots . I was so surprise he can recognise the quantity after i have been flashing him for 2 weeks .Perhaps just like the Little Neuro Tree said "even the kids do not look at the cards but they are still listening, they still can absorb like sponge! )

时旭 , mummy and 爸爸 are really proud of you !

**时旭 on 19th month

最近时旭很喜欢把东西分门别类。衣服，鞋子，bag，裤子等等。属于爸爸的，他就说“爸爸的”，属于妈妈的，就说＂mummy的“。 就连爸爸和mummy他也来“分类“。他跟保姆说“爸爸...car car ; mummy ...taxi！“　（因为每次爸爸载他都用car，mummy带他都坐taxi)。

上个周末晚上，爸爸从兵营里带回来一双球鞋。第二天时旭起来，看到了那双陌生的鞋，他没看过爸爸和mummy穿过，他说“ah pek 的“。

hmm......不属于爸爸的 AND 不属于妈妈的 = ah pek 的 哈哈。。这是什么formula？但至少他懂得那是男装鞋（他没说aunty 的 ）





**时旭on 19th month

Today mummy brought 时旭 to attend uncle Kenn's daughter shower party and take this opponity to meet his "老婆仔“ (mummy "verbally engaged" for him with aunty Christy's daughter ->Rachel ) .Their first met was so special -> 38 妇女节 .Haha ...In the first met , mummy asked 时旭 gave Rachel a kiss , he really did it ! but we were too late to brought out the camera , he was too fast ! haha ... Aunty Christy was so busy with asking them kissing each other and to be their camera lady . Rachel was not a shy girl , in fact she is friendly . She and 时旭 got on well togather .They played ballon and pushing around rachel's stroller (like couple bring out their baby to stroll ) 时旭 was so happy as this was his first time joining other's party . He ran around the ballroom and has good appetite ( perhaps happy can cause a good appetite ) . He ate whatever mummy fed him . strawberry , chocolate cake , spagatti . All are his first try .During the end of the session , 时旭 held and shake mummy's hand and said " dancing .. dancing " .He had a good feel to dance with mummy in ball room haha ...


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Little couple and their 2 "mother in law "haha ......

**时旭 on 19.5 month